A few words today.
Today at my Yoga training all of us were going through a
sequence of Suria Namaskara (sun salutations). Libby, the teacher opened a
class with a collective “Ohm” that resonated through my chest at first and then
as more people joined in, I could feel the waves of sound propagating through
my entire core. Stretching all the way from my toes to the top of my being. The
sequence was not hard, and repetitive with deepening of each posture, adjusting
and listening to the body. I was going into Adho Mukha Svanasana (down ward
facing dog) when my mind said that I was trying too hard…that I wasn’t doing
yoga, that I was in fact trying to be perfect at my asana( pose). This was not the
first conscious realization of me “trying for perfection”, but I was a
heartfelt one. I stopped. I stopped trying and surrendered into my breath. And
it took me further, I realized that it is what I do, even though not admitting.
I strive for perfection and there is tremendous pressure that I put on myself
and inevitably fail. Not because striving, because of trying NOT to be human.
The essence of perfection is in NEVER making a mistake, well, that is something
that is unachievable in a human world, in human form. Why? Why do I expect that
of myself? Stop. I would like the relief of ALLOWING myself mistakes. Brene
Brown “The Gift of Imperfection”. I better finish this book. It talks about
exactly that. Achieving wholeheartedness, happiness and self-acceptance through
knowledge and acceptance that NO ONE is perfect. Thank Gods. Thank you Libby for
that back bend today, back bends are heart openers. It put into perspective
what I knew about myself, but didn’t feel it through enough to act on it. Stop
trying “Perfection” and try “great job for today” and try “happy”. That’s quite
the challenge for me.
At the end of the practice when we went into savasana I
imagined my grandfather kneeling behind me and closing my eyes with his hands,
big, firm, kind, warm hands. Then I imagined him hugging me really close, and
me hugging him back and leaning my head on his shoulder. I felt so home. When I
came out of meditation, and Libby asked us to “Namaste” to each other, I suddenly
felt a tear coming on. It was not like the flood that I felt before, just from
mere helplessness. It was a tear from the very depth. It was the one from the
cracks. Like when a tree leaks sap and it slowly runs down to the roots. I sat
on my mat for quite a few minutes after. I didn’t want to let go of “the safe
place” I created for myself. I soaked in the last of the meditation and my
grandfathers’ presence. I rose off the floor and faced the day.
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